Helping Children Cope With Fear Anxiety
By: Arthur Buchanan

Whether tragic events touch your family personally or are brought into your home via newspapers and television, you can help children cope with the anxiety that violence, death and disasters can cause.

The Caring for Every Child's Mental Health Campaign offers these pointers for parents and other caregivers:

? Encourage children to ask questions. Listen to what they say. Provide comfort and assurance that address their specific fears. It's okay to admit you can't answer all of their questions.

? Talk on their level. Communicate with your children in a way they can understand. Don't get too technical or complicated.

? Be honest. Tell them exactly what has happened. For example don't say that someone who has died has "gone to sleep;" children may become afraid of going to bed.

? Find out what frightens them. Encourage your children to talk about fears they may have. They may worry that someone will harm them at school or that someone will try to hurt you.

? Focus on the positive. Reinforce the fact that most people are kind and caring. Remind your child of the heroic actions taken by ordinary people to help victims of tragedy.

? Pay attention. Your children's play and drawings may give you a glimpse into their questions or concerns. Ask them to tell you what is going on in the game or the picture. It's an opportunity to clarify any misconceptions, answer questions and give reassurance.

? Develop a plan. Establish a family emergency plan for the future, such as a meeting place where everyone should gather if something unexpected happens in your family or neighborhood. It can help you and your child feel safer.

If you are concerned about your child's reaction to stress or trauma, call your physician or a community mental health center.

To learn more about children's mental health:

Call toll-free: 1.800.789.2647
(TDD): 301.443.9006
Web site: www.mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/child

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